The Christmas season is here!

This blog chronicles my move from the idyllic west to a base in Texas, and eventually, to central Germany where I am living and soaking up all of the techno I can handle.
Another milestone: the 101st post on the Adventures of Molly Murphy! And, today, one milestone marks another! This weekend brought my original European traveling companion, my great high school friend K., back to the continent! She traveled all the way here from the states to spend last weekend with me, and we were able to revisit some of our memories of times traveling! We had a wonderful time...but of course, my only complaint is that out time spent catching up was faaaaar too brief! She is also married to an "M."... little do M. & M. know, but their future travel plans may include another European reunion to include them someday, if we have our say! I certainly hope so: it was wonderful to have her here, if only for a weekend! Safe travels home, K.!
I grew up in a part of South Dakota where usage of the word "bar" in the description of a cattle brand (as in, "rafter-bar-J") outnumbers usage in the phrase "bar mitzvah" by oh, roughly, a million to one. As a result, I was pretty much denied the opportunity to attend all but one of these ceremonies as a kid, and witness firsthand all of the glory that apparently accompanies these fetes...great outfits, cool favors, catchy slogans. Which is not to say that I wasn't treated to some fantastic trips down memory lane by all three of my freshman year roommates and roughly half of my sorority sisters who were kind enough to share some incredibly hilarious snapshots from their big days. Now, while I can't get ahold of my college roommate's bat mitzvah pictures and post them here to entertain you (and I guarantee they would do the trick...we were in junior high smack in the middle of the 80s...) But, I can do the next best thing: head on over to Bar Mitzvah Disco (via Gawker) and fasten your seatbelt for a trip back to junior high, circa 1987. Just the fact that the folks at Bar Mitzvah disco make a reference to the television show Solid Gold puts them pretty high on the hipster list in my book.
I get surprises all of the time. Sometimes, they're funny, sometimes they're sweet. And sometimes, particularly with all of the goodbyes that have been happening around here lately, the surprises are poignant. And yesterday, when I inadvertently witnessed a homecoming, was no different. Having accepted an invitation to go holiday shopping with F. (my South Dakotan friend) and a group of her girlfriends, I was on post where we'd agreed to meet before heading out. The group was mostly assembled, awaiting the arrival of the last two girls, S. and her preschool age daughter Emma. Eventually, we saw them coming down the street when S. yelled, "Sorry ladies: no shopping for me today!" She explained that she'd received a phone call from her husband that morning: he was finally on the ground in Germany, on his way home after 6 long months in the desert. She began to reminisce about the deployment, how Emma initally asked about daddy all the time, and then, slowly stopped asking about him. Eventually, Emma began to refuse to talk to him when he would call home on the phone. Apparently, she hadn't asked about him in months, until Friday night. S. thinks Emma overheard a phone conversation about the impending reunion when she perked up and said,"Daddy coming home?" S. said she was so surprised: it was the first time she'd mentioned him in a very long time. Anyway, we hadn't intended to stay, but as we were talking, S. said, "There they are!" The soldier driving her husband's vehicle pulled up alongside the curb where we were standing, a few feet from S. and Emma. S. knelt down and said, "Emma, look, there's daddy." Emma said, "Nooooo. That's not daddy." S. tried again: "Emma, look: it's daddy." Emma strained her neck to see, and said, "It iiiiis?" Just then, S.'s husband stepped out of the truck, and little Emma, blond ponytail flying went running down the street and flew up into his arms. It was a sweet moment. And, when I turned around, I couldn't have been more surprised to see my shopping buddies, most of whom have been through deployments more than once, really fighting back the tears. I guess it doesn't need to be your family: the emotions are just right there on the surface. But the tears didn't last long: little Emma has her daddy back, and it was a good Saturday surprise...both for her, and those of us who got to see him come home!
So, in a former life, I was a violinist. Well, I guess it's not really a former life, but I certainly don't play as much as I used to! Anyway, I definitely am a former Suzuki kid, and as such, when I ran across an article about the sale of a violin which once belonged to the virtuoso Paganini today on abcnews.com, it caught my eye...for a couple of reasons. Growing up, I took group lessons with other Suzuki students every Tuesday, and I always looked forward to playing the Paganini piece "Witches' Dance" in the weeks leading up to Halloween. At any rate, I was reading the abcnews.com article and reminiscing about playing Pagaini's tune about this time of year, every year as a kid. And then something else caught my eye: the article's author says that Paganini's virtuoso playing "made people believe he had struck a deal with the devil." Hmm...okay, that's not doing much to loosen my childhood association of Paganini with all things spooky! You can find the article here: http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/wireStory?id=1270562 Hope you had a treat-filled, trick-free holiday...I did, too!